Some of the women in the soaps I love are starting to annoy the hell outta me! I understand wanting to keep an open mind and all but SPARE ME! Kendall refusing to believe that Spike is going to be deaf, Phyllis refusing to turn herself into the prison, come on!!!!! I'd want to be with my child and keep hope alive too, but where is the common sense? Oh wait...it's soap opera land....people come back from the dead...why make sense? Kendall's the one that's really got me in knots...all this concern and she gives her son "vitamins" that she knows NOTHING about??? She'd rather risk his life than have a deaf child? Pretty lame....